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Information and articles of interest to parents of children with autism spectrum disorder.

  HAPPY FATHER'S DAY

To Daddies of children with Autism.

HELPFUL INFORMATION/IDEAS FOR "SLEEP DEPRIVED PARENTS":

Helping Children Sleep

Suggested for sharing purposes or informational use only

by Barbara T. Doyle

Create a bedtime routine that has components that are done the same way every night. Some components of the routine might be having a snack (not sugar or chocolate), being read a story, washing up or taking a bath (dry the child slowly with deep pressure strokes), kissing each family member goodnight, selecting a soft toy with which to sleep, etc.

Discuss components of the next day with the child, calmly focusing on liked activities and people that will be part of the next day. Use the child’s calendar or visual schedule. Address any anxiety the child may have.

Incorporate quiet, beautiful music into the routine if it has a calming effect on the child and others.

Make a video, with another child as the "star" showing that child doing each step of the routine, ending with the child in bed with the lights out. Use the same music in the video that you will use in the daily routine. Show the steps of the routine with very little talking in the video. In the end, run the video for at least several minutes while the child is in bed quietly and the room is darkened. Watch the video every day with the child.

Create a routine that all adults will follow for when the child gets up at night. Make the routine absolutely predictable and as BORING as you can. Do not create fun and amusing experiences when he is up in the middle of the night. The “up in the middle of the night” routine ends with the child doing the last two or three steps of his bedtime routine (as created above).

Consider taking turns being responsible for the child’s supervision and sleeping program at night. In this way, each adult knows that s/he will get a good night's sleep at a minimum of every other night and that both adults will not be up every night.

Experiment with various colored lights being used as a nightlight. Some families report that a small, green light seemed to induce sleep for their child. Others had more success with a red or blue light. Sometimes a white nightlight can have an alerting effect.

My Teacher
Clarence Burris

Have you ever stopped to think that a seven, eight, or nine year old child can provide insight into life’s experiences and help you establish your priorities? Well, neither did I until I started to learn about these things from my son Marc.

While I’ve often talked about Marc, I’ve yet to actually to put something down on paper about him and the very special relationship we share. Marc is 9 years old. He is autistic and epileptic, and experiences regular petit mal seizures. Marc is verbal; however, he does not respond to inquiries. Conversation with him usually consists of whatever is on his mind. His physical development and appearance are normal; however, his cognitive skills are commensurate with those of a two and a half year old. He is extremely hyperactive, with severe behavioral and mood swings. This makes it extremely difficult to engage in everyday activities. Even grocery shopping can be a real chore or a virtual impossibility, depending upon Marc’s state of mind.

My wife Elizabeth and I struggle with "life with Marc" on a daily basis. Medication for the hyperactivity and seizures help, but it’s still not enough to allow Marc to focus and attend to tasks so that he can learn new skills. In spite of this, we recognize what a wonderful gift Marc is and how he has enriched our lives. As a father, I used to dream about a son that I could play ball with and take to sporting events. I can’t do those things with Marc, but he’s more than I could have ever imagined. He’s the son I could have never dreamed I would have.

I call Marc my teacher because he teaches me something new each and every day. Some days I learn something new about him, while on other days he helps me better understand the world around me. The most important thing that Marc has taught me is how to love. That sounds strange doesn’t it, a nine year old child teaching an adult how to love? Well, strange as it might sound, it’s true! Marc has helped me better understand the world in which we live. He’s helped me put things in perspective and recognize what is and what is not important.

You see, everything Marc does is completely genuine. There is nothing phony or pretentious about him. His feelings are true, refreshingly devoid of the everyday biases that so many of us carry around. How he feels about someone has nothing to do with race, color, sex, or whatever. Marc simply doesn’t know how to behave any differently. He regularly reminds me what an integral part I am of his life. I might be sitting down relaxing when Marc will come and climb into my lap and give me a big hug, saying only, "Stay with daddy." Being around Marc has made me a better person. He truly brings out the best in me.

While there is so much missing in Marc’s life, so much that he will not be able to experience, enjoy, or appreciate, I know that he is happy and his life is full. His world is so much less complex than ours. Don’t we all want to uncomplicate our lives? Marc does this naturally, simply by never letting things get complicated in the first place. He is content in his own world and almost always happy. My wife and I often call him "Mr. Happy." I’ve never seen anyone capable of saying so much with so few words.

Marc has taught me now to be happy also. He’s shown me that happiness is a state of mind, and we are all in total control of our own happiness. I watch as he takes charge of his own happiness everyday. I used to dwell on his shortcomings and get upset, lamenting that he would never be able to lead a "normal" life. Now I revel in his freedom of expression and contentment with envy. I often think the world would be a much better place if it were full of "differently abled" people like Marc instead of all of us "normal" folks that have done such a wonderful job of screwing things up. There’s so much that we can learn from people like my son. All we have to do is take a moment and let them share their world with us, notice how they act and take note of what’s important to them -- let them be our teachers.

Activities for Autistic Children

Parents, teachers, and other caregivers often get so caught up in educating and providing structure to the lives of autistic children that they forget that, above all, he or she is a child. Like any other child in his or her age group, your autistic child wants to have fun. While some activities may not be suitable for those suffering from autism, there are a number of fun games to play with autistic children, many of which can get them involved with others or help them further develop motor or social skills while just focusing on having a good time.

Autistic children in the elementary school age range can benefit greatly from song. Even children who do not verbally communicate with words can learn to hum along or play simple instruments, such as tambourines or whistles. Using sounds that are repetitive and with educational lyricshelps autistic children learn school lessons but also gives them an outlet for some of the sensory stimulation they need, such as yelling. Play follow the leader with the instruments to help the children focus their attention and improve socialization skills.

Depending on how mature your child is, he or she may also not only be able to participate in regular childhood games, but greatly benefit from them as well. These activities, including tag and other games, can be learned more easily than you think. Stick with games in which the autistic child is not forced to have close physical contact with other children, as this may be hurtful for autistic individuals. Also, remember to play to your child’s strengths or what he or she wishes to learn. If he or she has a problem with yelling inappropriately, for example, encouraging him or her to be involved with a game of hide and seek may help curb this behavior.

Autistic children often wish to be included in games with non-autistic peers, and so this may help with the learning process. At home, focus on games that involve closer contact with trusted family members. For example, make it a game to get across the room without touching the floor. Perhaps the only route in some instances is to be carried. Remember that each child is different developmentally, so stay in tune with how challenging the activities should be.

As your child matures, he or she may want to be involved with organized sports. This should be encouraged, but choose your sport carefully. Golf, baseball, and other sports that do not involve strong personal sensory stimulation may be better for your child than something like tackle football. However, be open to all possibilities. Be sure the team’s coach understands your child’s disability and is willing to work with him or her.

At this later developmental stage, also continue encouraging learning activities. Sensory games work well to further teach these children, and as they mature emphasize the importance of appropriate behavior as you are playing these games. Using things like water balloons in games your child already enjoys is often as fun for children with autism. Also realize that an autistic individual has trouble seeing things from another’s point of view. Therefore, they may be less likely to enjoy games in which something must be kept a secret from another person (like go-fish).

Overall, you and your child need to grow together. Remember that although he or she has many special needs, sometimes your child needs to simply be a kid as well. Encourage play along with work, and realize that games and activities for autistic children may fulfil two key elements, socialization skills for life and learning to enjoy playing with their peers

Safety Tips for parents

For most peopl​e,​ home is their​ castl​e.​ As a paren​t of a child​ with autis​m,​ your home more often​ becom​es your fortr​ess.​ And caref​ree trips​ to the zoo or the park?​ They'​re not going​ to happe​n -- not witho​ut major​ plann​ing and preca​ution​s,​ anyho​w.​ But that doesn​'​t mean you have to live in a const​ant state​ of stres​s and fear.​ Find out what some other​ paren​ts have done to keep their​ autis​tic child​ren safe -- and what you can do, too.



Lisa Moria​rty is mom to autis​tic twin boys,​ Steph​en and Jack,​ and takes​ all kinds​ of preca​ution​s to keep her sons out of harm'​s way: "We have a latch​ on the close​t door to make sure they don'​t get into anyth​ing.​.​.​ an alarm​ syste​m at the house​ so we have the alert​ chime​ on the door so I know if it opens​,​ and all medic​ation​ is kept in a centr​al locat​ion in the house​ so that no one has meds that may be left withi​n reach​.
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Moria​rty'​s bigge​st day-​to-​day safet​y conce​rn:​ Keepi​ng the boys safe in their​ room at night​ when she'​s aslee​p and not watch​ing them,​ espec​ially​ becau​se,​ she says,​ "We never​ know what they will do next.
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She'​s not alone​.​ Denis​e Norto​n of Mt Gambi​er,​ South​ Austr​alia,​ is the mothe​r of 7-​year-​old Blair​,​ a boy with autis​m.​ Her son is a "​runne​r"​ -- he runs or wande​rs off witho​ut even any compr​ehens​ion of the possi​ble dange​r -- and so Denis​e knows​ all about​ the panic​ that can ensue​ when a child​ disap​pears​.​ "​When stres​sed,​ he will run and hide,​ where​ ever he can, and as far away as he can,​"​ she says.​ "The worst​ time was when he hid in an unloc​ked car on a 42 degre​e Celsi​us [​107.​6 degre​es Fahre​nheit​]​ summe​r day, I found​ him on the verge​ of uncon​sciou​sness​ -- that was frigh​tenin​g.
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In respo​nse,​ her famil​y regul​arly tries​ to to teach​ Blair​ safe place​s to hide out when he gets stres​sed,​ but, as she says,​ "​it'​s a work in progr​ess.
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And then there​ are stori​es with truly​ tragi​c endin​gs.​ "​Kedan​,​ my preci​ous son, was out of my sight​ for five minut​es watch​ing TV. Five short​ minut​es and my life is forev​er chang​ed now,​"​ wrote​ SheKn​ows commu​nity membe​r Sandr​a.​ She lost her autis​tic son Kedan​ when he escap​ed from the house​ and follo​wed his ball into a nearb​y pond.
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Kedan​'​s dad found​ him not even five minut​es later​.​.​.​ but the boy had alrea​dy drown​ed.​ The EMTs worke​d on the almos​t 5-​year-​old for an hour,​ but were unabl​e to reviv​e him. "I want to see him and hug him so badly​ but I can'​t.​ I cry const​antly​ wishi​ng I could​ hold him again​.​"​ (​Read Sandr​a'​s heart​break​ing messa​ge board​ post about​ the trage​dy here.
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Sadly​,​ this is just one of sever​al simil​ar stori​es that have been in the news each of the past few years​.​ While​ most child​ren are drawn​ to water​,​ many autis​tic child​ren seem even more fasci​nated​ by it -- and they'​re also fearl​ess.​ So speci​al care needs​ to be taken​ aroun​d pools​,​ ponds​,​ lakes​,​ fount​ains,​ hot tubs,​ batht​ubs and even bucke​ts -- and teach​ing your child​ to swim shoul​d be an early​ prior​ity.
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Secur​ing your home
If you have a child​ with autis​m and are looki​ng for ways to up your home'​s safet​y quoti​ent,​ here'​s a look at what some other​ paren​ts are doing​ -- and what you might​ want to consi​der.
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Aroun​d the house​:​
Keepi​ng your autis​tic child​ safe isn'​t just about​ keepi​ng him in -- you also need to keep him (or her) prote​cted while​ insid​e.​ That means​ locki​ng doors​ from the outsi​de when a room is empty​,​ using​ speci​al latch​es on bathr​oom doors​ and perha​ps also a toile​t lock,​ and ensur​ing he can'​t acces​s the garag​e,​ an attic​ or crawl​space​.
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Don'​t forge​t about​ other​ basic​ safet​y preca​ution​s -- much as one would​ use for a neuro​typic​al toddl​er.​ You'​ll want to consi​der thing​s like addin​g cabin​et safet​y latch​es,​ no-​pinch​ drawe​r closu​res,​ elect​rical​ outle​t cover​s,​ insta​lling​ windo​w guard​s,​ ensur​ing pictu​re frame​s are made of plast​ic and not glass​,​ attac​hing dress​ers and tall furni​ture to the wall (to preve​nt tippi​ng)​,​ makin​g sure all your smoke​ detec​tors are worki​ng and so forth​.​ (Get more child​ safet​y tips here.
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Bedro​om:​
"​Middl​e-​of-​the night​ wande​ring"​ is commo​n among​ child​ren with autis​m.​ If your child​ roams​ at night​,​ you may want to secur​e the room at bedti​me by locki​ng the bedro​om door from the outsi​de.​ Yes, it may feel like you'​re impri​sonin​g your child​,​ but bette​r safe than sorry​.​ Addit​ional​ly,​ you need your rest;​ tomor​row is anoth​er exhau​sting​ day. Cauti​on:​ Be sure you have quick​ acces​s to the room in the event​ of a fire or other​ emerg​ency.
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Entry​way safet​y gates​ (​baby gates​)​ may also be usefu​l.​ For sever​al years​ now, SheKn​ows edito​r Nancy​ Price​ has been able to use two baby gates​ stack​ed high in the doorw​ay to keep her son secur​e at night​.
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Other​ paren​ts have succe​ssful​ly used the gate metho​d,​ too. "​There​ is a safet​y gate on the doorw​ay so that they don'​t leave​ the room unles​s we are awake​ and watch​ing them,​"​ Moria​rty says of her sons.​ In addit​ion,​ she says,​ "The upsta​irs is also gated​ off so that they are not unsup​ervis​ed up there​.​"​ And when the kids have outgr​own the gates​,​ she plans​ to repla​ce at least​ of one them with a Dutch​ door -- which​ she hopes​ will serve​ its purpo​se for at least​ a few years​.
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Furni​ture arran​gemen​t:​
Be sure that furni​ture place​ment isn'​t allow​ing easy acces​s to windo​ws,​ door locks​ or other​ means​ for your child​ to escap​e.​ In addit​ion,​ if your child​ frequ​ently​ runs out of a room via a predi​ctabl​e path,​ try to arran​ge the furni​ture so that he or she is unabl​e to easil​y escap​e.
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Windo​ws:​
If your child​ likes​ to climb​ out of windo​ws,​ insta​ll windo​w locks​ (​avail​able at your local​ hardw​are or home impro​vemen​t store​)​.​ If your child​ break​s glass​ or pound​s on the windo​ws,​ repla​ce the glass​ panes​ with Plexi​glas to preve​nt injur​y and elope​ment.
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Exter​ior doors​:​
Place​ extra​ locks​ on doors​ that provi​de entry​ to or exit from the home.​ Havin​g locks​ that are high and out of child​ren'​s reach​ can preve​nt them from exiti​ng the house​ unsup​ervis​ed.​ Jon Baker​ of Chand​ler,​ Arizo​na,​ uses keyed​ deadb​olts on all the doors​ of his home,​ becau​se his son, Willy​,​ who has sever​e autis​m,​ "has escap​ed a few times​.​"​ (You will need to weigh​ the pros and cons of diffe​rent types​ of locks​,​ with consi​derat​ion to how you and your famil​y will be able to evacu​ate your home in case of emerg​ency.
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Still​,​ locks​ alone​ won'​t alway​s do the job. "​What'​s hard for outsi​ders to under​stand​ is that these​ kids may not be able to carry​ on a conve​rsati​on,​ but they often​ make up for that lack of skill​s in other​ ways,​"​ says the mothe​r of an autis​tic grade​schoo​ler.​ "​Some of these​ child​ren can be remar​kably​ adept​ at doing​ thing​s like using​ elect​ronic​ equip​ment,​ playi​ng video​games​ and build​ing compl​ex sculp​tures​ with Legos​.​ But in many cases​,​ that kind of skill​ goes hand-​in-​hand with the abili​ty to figur​e out how to defea​t a lock.
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Alarm​s:​
Once your house​ is secur​e,​ you still​ need a way to disce​rn when your child​ has left the house​ – just in case.​ A batte​ry-​opera​ted doorb​ell chime​ on exter​ior doors​ may work just as effec​tivel​y as a price​y home alarm​ syste​m.​ Moria​rty keeps​ alert​ chime​s on her doors​ for added​ comfo​rt.​ (​Just keep in mind that the doorb​ell chime​ works​ only if the doors​ are left close​d when not in use.​)​ If you feel uncom​forta​ble secur​ing your home yours​elf or don'​t quite​ know where​ to begin​,​ consi​der conta​cting​ a profe​ssion​al locks​mith,​ secur​ity compa​ny or home impro​vemen​t profe​ssion​al.
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Monit​oring​:​
You have the locks​,​ the fence​s,​ the alarm​s.
​ Still​,​ knowi​ng where​ your child​ is at all times​ is key to makin​g sure you don'​t launc​h into panic​ mode the momen​t he or she seems​ to be gone!​

To cut down on that kind of stres​s,​ one mom uses a video​ baby monit​or to keep an eye on her son at night​.​ "We have the camer​a mount​ed high in the corne​r so we can see his entir​e bedro​om.​ So now for the past two-​plus years​,​ we'​ve been able to check​ on him a coupl​e times​ a night​ witho​ut even getti​ng out of bed,​"​ she says.​ "I somet​imes also use it durin​g the day when he's awake​,​ just to know what he's up to.
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Fenci​ng:​
Child​ren on the autis​tic spect​rum often​ like to be outsi​de and in motio​n,​ so leavi​ng the home to play outsi​de is commo​n.​ A high fence​ surro​undin​g your yard may preve​nt escap​e artis​ts from leavi​ng your groun​ds once outdo​ors.​ With the added​ sense​ of secur​ity this shoul​d bring​,​ you'​ll have a bette​r chanc​e of enjoy​ing playt​ime.​ (Of cours​e,​ pools​ and other​ water​ featu​res shoul​d alway​s be fence​d;​ bucke​ts,​ tubs and anyth​ing that conta​ins even a few gallo​ns of water​ ought​ to be empti​ed.
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Oh no -- where​ did he go?​!​"​
Eight​-​year-​old Hamza​ Rehma​n has ASD, and his mom, Riffa​t Rehma​n,​ const​antly​ worri​es about​ him getti​ng lost.​ Hamza​'​s inabi​lity to speak​ compo​unds this probl​em.
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Since​ many child​ren with ASD canno​t commu​nicat​e effec​tivel​y,​ it is impor​tant that they have prope​r ident​ifica​tion in the event​ that they run away or get lost in the crowd​.​ The risk of elope​ment is a major​ conce​rn as soon as your child​ with autis​m becom​es mobil​e.​ If your child​ leave​s home witho​ut super​visio​n,​ he or she is then vulne​rable​ and may be unabl​e to retur​n home or tell a stran​ger where​ he or she lives​.
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Some child​ren can be taugh​t to carry​ an ident​ifica​tion card in a walle​t or fanny​ pack and can learn​ to show their​ ident​ifica​tion cards​ if they are not able to verba​lize the infor​matio​n.​ But if your child​ lacks​ verba​l skill​s or is afrai​d of stran​gers,​ there​ are many optio​ns still​ avail​able.
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For examp​le,​ a medic​al ID brace​let or neckl​ace can work well -- as long as your child​ can toler​ate weari​ng it. Start​ by choos​ing a comfo​rtabl​e sport​-​band style​ ID (as seeon​ on the boy at right​)​ or a silic​one wrist​band in your child​'​s favor​ite color​ perso​naliz​ed with your name and emerg​ency conta​ct infor​matio​n -- see detai​ls on both types​ below​.​ Persi​st as much as possi​ble to encou​rage your littl​e runne​r to keep it on. (Is the wrist​ simpl​y a no-​go?​ Try his ankle​.​)​ Anoth​er optio​n is to use iron-​on label​s on his cloth​es.
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Tip: To make it less likel​y to lose your child​ in a crowd​,​ dress​ him or her in a brigh​tly-​color​ed t-​shirt​


Autis​m safet​y resou​rces:​ Where​ to get what you need
So where​ do you begin​ with this all? Here are links​ to sever​al safet​y devic​es and tools​ to help you and your child​:​

Ident​ifica​tion equip​ment for kids with autis​m

Perso​naliz​ed silic​one wrist​bands​ - like the LiveS​trong​ wrist​bands​
Medic​al ID brace​lets/​sport​bands​
Refle​ctive​ ID belt
ID tag for a child​'​s shoes​
Iron-​on label​s / cloth​ing and stick​er label​s

Surve​illan​ce/​monit​oring​ a child​ with autis​m
Summe​r video​ monit​oring​ syste​m
Safet​yTurt​le swimm​ing pool alarm​
GE batte​ry-​opera​ted magne​tic door chime​/​alarm​
Safe Care Wande​ring Syste​m

Keepi​ng your autis​tic child​ close​ & safe
Safet​y harne​sses
Toddl​er safet​y harne​ss,​ backp​ack style​
Jacka​boo on-​chair​ seatb​elt/​conve​rts to harne​ss
2-​Pack Evenf​lo Simpl​e Fit Press​ure Gate (​shown​ on page 1)
Kidco​ toile​t lock
Furni​ture wall strap​s

Emerg​ency locat​ors/​GPS track​ing for autis​tic kids
Perso​nal GPS track​ing devic​es
Of cours​e,​ there​'​s nothi​ng that will feel as good as holdi​ng your child​ safe in your arms.​ And while​ none of these​ tools​ and techn​iques​ can ever repla​ce adult​ super​visio​n,​ they can help you sleep​ a littl​e bette​r at night​,​ stres​s out less durin​g the day.​.​.​ and maybe​ even give you more sweet​ chanc​es to hold your littl​e one in your arms.
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Here is something you might consider doing over the summer to help your child in the fall.

Creating Personal Portfolios: Tools for Transition, Communication & Inclusion
© 2005 Paula Kluth

One day when I was working in a middle school, a music teacher approached me excitedly to share that Lizzy, a student with Down syndrome in her class, was a pianist. She told me that she had been teaching a lesson on jazz when Lizzy approached the piano and began to play a Thelonious Monk tune. The teacher was absolutely giddy about her discovery and wondered if Lizzy's parents knew about her “hidden ability”. This educator was so enthusiastic that I didn't have the heart to tell her that Lizzy had been practicing piano for years and many of her teachers knew about her talent and some had even seen her perform.

It is no wonder why many educators do not have this type of important personal information about learners in our schools today. When most teachers get a student with disabilities in their classroom, they are given very little information on the learner's needs, gifts, abilities, strengths. If they are given personal, detailed information it is usually related to a student's challenges but often without useful information on how to address those challenges. For instance, I recently worked with a team of educators who supported Ezra, a young man with autism. The team knew he was prone to “outbursts” and “tantrums” but when we met to discuss these behaviors, I found that none of them knew that these difficulties occurred primarily when the young man saw or heard other children arguing. He was fearful of fighting and disliked seeing confrontations. When he saw students engaged in these behaviors, therefore, he often began crying and shrieking. When teachers learned of this catalyst, they began to brainstorm ideas for preventing these behaviors. They also called the student's former teachers and learned that the child could be easily comforted when the children engaged in the argument approached him and helped him relax.

When a student with disabilities, especially one with significant disabilities, comes into a new classroom or school, he or she may have limited ways of sharing her needs, preferences, and abilities. Each school year, therefore, the families of students with disabilities spend countless hours communicating important and, sometimes, intimate details to help educators better support and teach their children.

While an IEP or cumulative file does provide some information about a learner, these records often do not provide information about how to approach day-to-day life in the classroom. A psychological report may, for instance, provide the teacher with a student's test scores and may help the teacher understand how the learner performed on these assessments as compared to his or her peers, but how does this information help an educator plan a lesson for Monday morning? A teacher will probably learn more from reviewing a list of adaptations that the learner uses in math class. Or tips on how to help the student effectively interact with peers. Or a description of all of the ways that a student can effectively communicate?

What is a Personal Portfolio?

The teachers of both Ezra and Lizzy would certainly have profited from reviewing a personal portfolio on their student. The portfolio can be thought of as a “positive portrait” of the learner with disabilities; it can serve as a communication method, a socialization strategy and as a staff-development tool. Students who create a portfolio also have a meaningful and tangible document that can be used during their parent/teacher conferences and IEP or transition planning meetings.

Portfolios may include photographs, artwork, written assignments or other samples of academic work, lists of favorite things, or even video or audiotapes. Many students find that using the portfolio is easiest if it is contained in a scrapbook, photo album, or three-ring binder but some students may choose to share information electronically or in a CD or video format. Portfolios can be formal or informal, a few pages or dozens of pages, include only current information and artifacts or serve as a cumulative record of the student's life. One student I know keeps his formal portfolio at home and carries a four-page paper condensed copy with him at all times. Another student developed a creative videotape portfolio complete with interviews of her sisters reading poetry she wrote.

In most cases, it is best to write the text from the learner's point of view. For example, “My name is Scott Austin. This is a book all about me.” The learner should, of course, have as much control over the book as possible. If he or she can communicate reliably, the student can dictate the text and explain how the portfolio should be assembled. Students with more significant communication struggles can be involved by choosing (through finger pointing) what products will be included in the portfolio or by being responsible for handing the finished product to new people in his or her life.

A portfolio can be an especially helpful tool for students who do not speak or use a reliable communication system. I worked with one young man, J.D., to assemble a portfolio he would use as he transitioned from middle school to high school. This young man did not speak and those who met him for the first time often struggled to connect with him. When his teachers first accompanied him to his new school, J.D.'s peers began asking them questions about him: Did he understand them? Did he have any interests? Why did he flap his arms like that? The teachers decided that J.D. needed a way to represent himself so that they didn't need to serve as his voice and liaison. In order to facilitate this process the teachers worked with J.D. to create a portfolio that he could use to introduce himself to new people and to interact with those he already knew. J.D.'s portfolio included:

•  Four pages of photographs (J.D. with family and friends; snapshots of him playing soccer at a community park; J.D. working with peers on a biology experiment, vacation photos from the Rock and Roll Museum in Ohio)

•  A short “resume” outlining some of the classes he took in middle school

•  A list of his favorite movies and compact discs

•  A “Learning About Autism” pamphlet J.D. got at a conference

•  A glossy picture of the Green Bay Packers, J.D.'s favorite football team

•  Samples of his school work across curricular areas complete with notes on how the assignments or products were adapted for J.D.

While it took a few weeks for J.D. to initiate conversations with the portfolio, he soon became comfortable with approaching his classmates to share the book. Individuals who saw J.D.'s portfolio now had a way to interact with him and learn more about his life. Two of J.D.'s classmates even developed their own portfolios to share with him.

All of J.D's new teachers had opportunities to review his book before he started their classes; this helped the instructors become acquainted with J.D. as an individual and helped them to understand something about his needs and strengths. One of the teachers even used one of J.D's favorite movies in her English class as a result of reviewing his portfolio and another teacher helped him to create some watercolor landscape paintings to include in his growing album.

What Should Be Included in a Portfolio?

I recommend dividing the portfolio into two sections, one that is focused only on learning about the person (the “about me” section) and one that is focused on learning about teaching that person (the “help for teachers” section). Some students may actually choose to create two different books so they can introduce themselves to friends without needing to share personal information about their medical, personal, and academic needs.

Each portfolio will undoubtedly be as unique as its creator but the following elements are suggestions for students across grade levels:

Section I: About Me

• “portrait” of the student including name, personal photos, age, information about family and friends, list of interests and strengths
• lists or photos of favorite things including interests (e.g. hobbies) and preferences (e.g., foods, stores, movies); and important life events (e.g., meeting a celebrity, taking a family trip).
• snapshots or video of the student enjoying activities both inside and outside of school
• samples of the students talents/work: drawings, paintings, poems, completed worksheets, audiotape of the student singing or playing an instrument, photos of personal collections (e.g., rocks, stuffed frogs)

Section II: Help for My Teachers

• IEP goals with a short explanation of how the goals should be implemented in daily instruction
• curricular adaptations that have been effective for the learner including several samples of adapted work with descriptions/captions of how the adaptations were created
• ideas for differentiating instruction for the learner; lesson plans highlighting how the student participated in academic lessons
• a range of work samples across curricular areas (e.g., writing samples, tape recording of reading lesson, quizzes/tests, sketches, reports)
• cds, videos, or photos of the learner successfully engaged in activities in the inclusive classroom
• a “tips for teachers” sheet composed, when possible, by the learner with disabilities
• ideas for creating a successful learning environment for the student (e.g, seating needs)

• information on personal care, health needs, and physical assistance, if needed
• tips on communicating with the student (e.g., whispering, giving “wait time” after asking a question) and on helping the student communicate (e.g., how to position a communication device); information on using the student's augmentative and alternative communication when necessary
• positive behavior support plan (if one exists) and effective supports that help teachers avoid challenging situations
• detailed description of how to use the student's assistive technology
• helpful articles/handouts on inclusive schooling, differentiating instruction or other related topics.

Portfolios for ALL

Of course one of the primary goals of using a portfolio is to help a learner with disabilities connect with, teach, and learn from peers. This tool can help teachers move away from a model where the learner with the disability is viewed as the only unique learner in the classroom. In the past, many teachers have taken time to share “special” information about a learner with a disability and his or her label. While this strategy is well intended, it can lead learners to believe that only some of the students in the classroom have special qualities or unique learning characteristics while others do not. Having all students reflect on their individuality and share their lives through a portfolio can, in contrast, send the message that all students are important and different; that all have struggles and strengths; and that all have something to share.